I'm Stronger than I've Been Before

          Change is inevitable yet growth and maturity, comes within.

          There is nothing wrong in changing yourself. You are giving yourself a room for your own growth and improvement. Maybe by changing yourself, you can find the satisfying result for the decisions you made and the decisions you’re about to make as you go on.

          There maybe those who can’t accept you as a changed person. Many will criticize you and throw foul words that may hurt you. Those words can hurt you deeply but always remember that you did not change for them to criticize you.

          Maybe they are judging you because they can’t accept the change you’ve made, they can’t take that you changed from the person they wanted you to be, and so what? It isn’t your duty to be the person they are all expecting you to be.

          It is not your fault. Your decision is not a mistake. There’s no one to blame and most especially you do not blame yourself. You are what you wanted to be now. Everyone got thoughts and words to throw upon you all the time.

          They should all understand and accept the fact that you’ve grown to be wiser and it is for your own. You’ve realized that it is okay to be different, and if they won’t accept you, it is okay. They are all the same so it is okay to be yourself because you’re different from them. You’ve change to become better and not to mind all the judgments and criticisms coming from them.

          Those who gossip more are the poor one’s because they’re not changing, and they are not becoming better.  They were not the one who went through pain and circumstances in your life so they will never understand your feelings. They were not the one who went through the hardships first before having the thought to already fight and stand up to change for herself. They weren’t. So they will never understand your struggle and hardships before coming into decision to change. Do not mind them. Let them all be sick of throwing foul words to others, let them laugh from the things you are proud of.

          You should be proud of yourself. Not every one of us makes a decision to change. Yes, it may be hard to accept the changes at first but you’ve made it and you’ve grown much better as a person than you were before. You may not have satisfied everyone but you’ve made yourself happiest. Do not be afraid to change it means you’re growing and becoming better.